This last month has been hectic. I have started (some might say finally) standing up for myself in the world of relationships. Though there is nothing permanent happening in this space, there is enough activity to do some poignant self-reflection.  I noticed I was being a bit of a cheerleader to those around me, setting these men up to go off and achieve their dreams, pull themselves out of a hole or finally realise they need to put some actions into their own world. If you’re one of my people, I find it really hard to turn off and not be your cheerleader. It is also emotionally draining when there isn’t…