Oh life. It throws you a curve ball every now and again to check you’re still focused on playing the game. At work the other evening, doing my ‘Facilitator of Fun’ role, we had a fire alarm go off. That was a bit of a signal that this was going to be a different kind of night! The electrician who came by to sort out our situation was beautiful, weaving a new level of enjoyment into my work evening (on top of all the beautiful people already in the gym – for the record). I have a natural level of flirt that is imbedded in my personality, a this was…
The ‘Darcy’ conundrum
“We need more gentleman in our lives.” This comment came whilst discussing the ending to a book a girlfriend and I had both recently read. Granted, 1921 was a different time, yet the thought of ‘gentleman’ draws women back to reading books like this and continually re-watching the BBC version of Pride and Prejudice (Colin Firth is a big part of my early teen memories, Mum would happily stare at him or Matt Damon all day – the lady’s got taste). Whilst I’m not a huge fan of the lack of communication that comes with the era, I am a big fan of the chivalry. This point seems to be…
Is lycra required?
Learning new things is a little scary, a little apprehensive, sometimes terrifying. Terrified is how I felt approaching Kingsford Smith Drive on my bike this morning. I bought this bike a couple of months ago, I have been really excited to have it in my life. The thought of cruising along the Brisbane bike paths on a spring morning or summer eve gives me a sense of calm. The reality of riding the bike is a whole other situation. I have been taking it out for little rides on the quieter roads near my house. Learning the gears was really step one. Getting a new bike seat was step two….
Baited Breath
Want to be my boyfriend in waiting? The life I lead is never boring. When I have a tall, dark and handsome man declaring his desire to date me, it’s still fraught with silly complications. Like 15+ hours of flights to go on a follow up date to the 10 day Australian whirlwind that occurred in September. Minor detail. The second part to the flight situation is finding a weekend that is free for taking such time off – between now and Christmas it feels like there are events every weekend, which is pretty typical for my life in general, these plans are a little more concrete in that some…
Recognition, response, and reflection
Sitting at an airport once more, which is my second favourite place to reflect on things – the first being the shower of course! This past week has been one of the most emotionally draining and stressful weeks that I have had in a really long time. Thinking back, losing my passport (and debit/credit cards, license, general sense of adulthood) in Germany was actually less stressful than the week I’ve been through. What has made this stress and emotion so prevalent in my world you ask? People. Lots of things to do with people. I love people, this is where my challenge begins. In the past 5 months I have…
Surprises and half birthdays
I have spent this weekend being surrounded by exhibitions of love. First up was a surprise birthday outing for my girlfriend Carrie, where we spent the day go-karting. I was faced with embracing the saying “do something that scares you everyday”. The newest thing that scares me is being in a go kart, surrounded by newly post pubescent males flying around a go kart track where they bump into you and all I’m trying to do is be a good driver. Not the point of the exercise, I know. I’m not designed to be a go kart driver it seems. Let me bungee jump, let me sky dive. Go karting…